3 Steps To Get Closer To What You Want This Year
Is THIS the year you’re going to make the career change you’ve been thinking about?
I would love to help you get there!
Try these 3 steps to get you started and stay on track.
Step 1: Connect with your vision for the year.
Visioning the future is a powerful exercise. It helps elite athletes and musicians improve their performance, can arouse hope, and increase well-being.
But it can be surprisingly challenging to do. Our brains are wired to look to the past to predict the future. To imagine a future can feel like wishful thinking or a waste of time.
I encourage you to give it a try.
Here are two ways to envision the future:
- Try this Visioning Exercise.
- Imagine your future retirement celebration:
- Write down what you see, feel, or hear.
- What are people saying about you?
- What are they thanking you for?
Step 2: Pick your top 5 priorities for the year.
You have many obligations, interests, and distractions to keep you busy with things that might not get you where you want to go.
Pick 5 priorities that align with your vision. By doing so, you consciously set the intention to focus on the important things.
Here’s one way to determine your 5 priorities:
- Make a list of 25 things you want to do this year. Include all aspects of your life: health, family, relationships, finances, career, fun and leisure.
- Circle the 5 you want to focus on. These will be your priorities for this year.
- Write them down and make two copies where you can see them. You could place one copy on your desk and the other on your nightstand.
- Forget about the remaining 17 things you want to do. Yes, forget about them!
Step 3: Make the top 5 priorities non-negotiable.
This is about the commitment you make to keep the top 5 the top 5! When a commitment is non-negotiable, you will consistently take the actions required to keep that commitment.
Tips to help you stay committed:
- The brain loves the predictability of consistency. A daily routine can help you stay in the game.
- Say NO to everything that does not align with your 5 priorities! Create space for what you say is a priority.
- Engage with your future self in the following ways:
What might result from the action I’m about to take 1 week, 1 month, 1 year from now?
How do I want to feel in 1 day/1 month/1 year? Is what I’m about to do going to help me get there?
Final thoughts.
To get what you want, start with a clear vision.
Choose your priorities and commit to them.
Write down your priorities and keep them in a place where you can see them every day.
Develop a routine to help you stay on track.
Connect with your future self if a present action threatens to sabotage your efforts.
What do you want this year?
Is Your Night Guy Sabotaging Your Morning Guy?
“What future have you committed or settled yourself to that’s driving what you do now?”
Benjamin Hardy, PhD via “The one you feed”